Self Love Change For Self

We all have flaws, even those that believe or let people believe that they are perfect. Truth is,  we all have things about ourselves we want to change.  For instance I feel I'm still to fat and flabby and my arns are rather unattractive,  but I'm working on sculpting myself to be the way I feel I should be no matter how anyone feels about it. But I'm changing because I WANT TOO! I see and hear about people bending to others just to earn the approval and false love instead of those loving you for you and supporting you for the positive changes one wishes to make for themselves. It's sadly society pressure. People need to love themselves first, know their flaws and embrace them, and change the things they see fit. People say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but quick to define what true beauty is. Well it's bull shit.  Change for your well being, change because you are comfortable being you and wish to enhance your hidden potential and favorite features, or there's something about you that you don't like. Like your consistency, your level of organization, to be a better artist, or SOMETHING. Just don't do it because someone demands it. You're fanfuckingtastic, you will be even better when you finally realize it.