SINGLE PARENT GENDER BLAME

Good morning everyone! Today's topic is one I have seen going on all around but particularly in the black community. This topic "Gender Blame". It's amazing how a single gender can be blamed for things that they have NO control over. So I was going across the internet and fb for most of my absence and of course tv, and you know what I see?  Single mothers or single fathers being blamed for the outcome of their child for not being an upholding citizen people have been brainwashed to believe is correct. For instance a single women raising her son and it's HER fault he's gay, her fault he's not a fighter 24/7 her fault that respect for women is confused by being a (excuse my language) "punk ass bitch". Oh and don't think single fathers with daughters don't catch shit because their men. It's his fault she can't cook, his fault she's to intimidating and isn't stupid enough to fall for a players tricks. It's his fault she's to easy-to-use (both gender single parents get this blames) and much more. Fact is this is a load of shit! Funny thing the finger blame comes from non parents, people with single parents, those that claim they have an open mind, or my personal favorite bible thumping contradicting bigots! I've seen what people blame the single parent who plays the part of both parents for happy to two opposite gender families happen to their kids. In all honesty why preach about us needing to stick together yet you tear others down for doing what they feel is right. Now I'm talking about parents who care for their kids where the other parent walked out, the other parent died, the other parent donated to give someone a chance to be a parent, a parent who adopted,  a parent who loves! I grew up in a two STRAIGHT couple home, I love women (and men) I was just as angry growing up as a single parent daughter would for more than likely similar or different reasons, I have been considered to intimidating to approach about feels (EVERYONE confessed WELL after high school lol) and other things. While I can't say I completely know the struggle of a single parent home (I did live it just in my very youthful toddler/baby years) I'm not going to knock it either! I have brothers who do respect women, and use words before a fist raised from birth till now by TWO parent home.... oh but wait I thought the single parent was to blame? Go figure...... WAKE UP PEOPLE! If you have a problem with single parenting, then go get married have a baby with a random person and stick with someone you don't love and most importantly keep the negative judgmental bull shit to yourself I LOVE SINGLE PARENTS!  <3 More of the good guys and dolls for the deserving lot via the parents who cares!